So much comes up to be re-evaluated after experiencing a traumatic event such as heartbreak. You will change. You will become a different person. Your values and goals will become clearer and you will want to align yourself with people who have the same values. You will want to align yourself with others who are showing up as you are now: authentic and real. If you can look at your heartbreak as an awakening to your truest self, you will come out the other side completely whole and at peace. Here is what you need to know about Starting Over After Divorc.
There are other women experiencing the same loneliness after a breakup or divorce. Try joining a Facebook group for support post-divorce. This may help you realize you are not alone as you trek down this path of recovery from heartbreak.
We all have access to unconditional spiritual support from angels and guides who are here to assist us on our journey. You can turn to them whenever you are going through a difficult situation or experiencing intense emotions that you are having difficulty processing.
If you have one person who can be “your person” through this journey, ask them for support. Tell them for the time being that you really need someone who will listen if things get rough. Make a pact that you will do the same for them when they need it. Helping others does help ourselves so being there for someone else can help you shift your energy.
When you understand that loneliness occurs when you are out of alignment with yourself and your Higher Self, you will know that you can relieve your loneliness on your own. Spending time with yourself and doing things you enjoy can help alleviate the loneliness. Filling the void of loneliness with someone else never lasts for long. Take this time and find comfort in getting to know yourself on a deeper level.
This is a time to tap into the wiser, older part of who you are and learn to trust the inner wisdom that comes from within. Go to your wiser self for counsel instead of seeking outside validation. This will strengthen your inner self. This is one of the most profound benefits you will gain by taking time to be with just yourself.